TERMS OF AGREEMENT

They say that getting a dog, or any other pet, with a man is a test to the relationship's possibility of children. If your man already has a child, what does that say about your relationship? You have a pet, but the mother of the child has the child with him, so technically it is not a test run. He's already been there. With someone else. Not the point. 

The point is, however, that the dog is supposed to be a way into something greater. What is greater if everything that a girl wants he has already had with someone else? Except marriage of course (but they definitely talked about it, I'm sure). So you have the dog, the current man (post traumatic stress), the company and everything, but do you encompass his hopes and dreams. Or are you just an escape from the reality of the fantasy? I mean really how is one ever to feel secure in a relationship, that he had already with someone else? It must be the same questions the second wife will ask about the first. But what's the answer?

The truth behind it is if you wishing to be the one, then it is all on his terms. You may not even know what the terms are. You are currently playing in the dark.